I came across a blog

that Mr. Dennis Craig II wrote onto his blog about what he finds in a girl...I'd like to do the same but vice versa.

Personally, way before Brian and Tony happened.. my mindset of a boy was simply this.


1. He had to be a dancer.

He just had to be, I don't know why but I find it very appealing to my eyes if a boy can dance. And I don't mean like just basic dancing on the dance floor, I mean this boy had to be a b-boy. He needs to be able to catch up with the latest moves and teach me so we can dance together. I always wanted to be a b-girl, no lie, but my parents absolutely forbade the idea.

2. He had to dress nice 24/7

I'm really not the person who dresses nice 24/7 only because I've been influenced to do otherwise, however I still try to look as decent as I can with a spice of Krissy, get it? But anyways, my boy had to be Nikes or in Jordans or any type of brand named clothing. I didn't want a boy who tried too hard tho, that's just gey chiz, you know what I mean? The ones that are ALWAYS dressed to impress, I just liked a guy who can pull of a simple tshirt/jeans/nice kicks (:

3. He has to smell bomb and good hygiene

What I mean by that... is this guy had to smell like my dad. I LOVE THE WAY MY DAD SMELLS. My dads number one rule is to always smell good (: And I expect the same from any guy out there... LMAO. Not even Tony, but I mean every guy out there should always smell good.

4. He needs to be a nerd 8)

What I mean by nerd, I don't mean straight As, AP classes, 4.998989, I mean decent As and Bs with the PASSION of learning. Always trying to finish homework on time, hardcore studying for a test you know your going to pass..in other words, a nerd like me (: Who knows when to focus, and knows when to stop (:


5. He has to have goals.

What kind of life would you live if you had no goals in life? This guy needs to be able to know what he wants to do in his future and how he's going to support a wife and kids. TECHNICALLY it is a bit too off to the future, but it's nice to have a mindset to be able to support others, other than yourself. I for one have the mind set of being able to support myself, with or without a significant other, but if so marry someone, I want to be able to support that person, where we live, and if any...children LOL. But like I said, too off to the future, but honestly, goals goals goals.

Did I find those traits in Tony...or in any guy I ever dated?

Honestly, I don't care if I do or I don't. Take my word for it, a lot of what I posted up there is what I truly wanted to find in a guy, but truth of the matter is, what you want in a guy is what you'll find in yourself, you won't be able to find yourself in another person even more so a guy. LOL. Opposites attract, I find that VERY TRUE, as Tony and I do have a lot of similarities I found that the traits that he has that oppose me quite appealing ^^

A lot of people would like to find certain aspects in guys, but the truth is.. if you so happen to run across a person that checks every check marks in your preference, I don't think that person is the one... he's "too perfect"


Then again, it's all my opinion.. (:


I found my boy, I r happy ^^