There are times where you find yourself bombarded with terrible feelings in the pit of your stomach. Some of which are caused by betrayal.
It's not easy reading things a loved one once said about you, bad mouthed, spoken terribly of..
I tell you, it is not.. especially when you were the one sitting at the other end keeping yourself subtle.
The thing is, I don't think much of us are hurt TO WHAT THEY SAID ABOUT US, but the fact that they did. It breaks the whole.. "well.. dang man.. your guna talk crap like that? and joke like that about me? thought you loved me.. bleh bleh"
There's not really a certain word I can describe how that is somewhat a betrayal, but it's there.
Solution: Accept it. Attempt to let go of the grudge that will continue to grow, just let it go, because it's not going to do anything but contribute to the rest of whatever problems you may have. Walk away with your head held high with the knowledge that YOU were not the one who was talking crap, THEY were. They stooped down THAT LOW to talk bad about you... something that you may now commit to, so that one day before you open your mouth to talk sour or to joke.... you don't.
:D
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
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